“I feel invisible,” Caitlyn wrote to me. — “It’s like, no matter what I do, no matter what I say, one sees me, no one hears me. I post on social media, I write blog posts, I join FB groups, I try to be of service, and nothing seems to work. It seems like the more I flap my wings, the more invisible I become. Even when I make a scene, I still feel unseen. This hurts.” Caitlyn’s email stopped me in my tracks.