“Even when I make a scene, I still feel unseen. This hurts.”

“I feel invisible,” Caitlyn wrote to me.

“It’s like, no matter what I do, no matter what I say, one sees me, no one hears me. I post on social media, I write blog posts, I join FB groups, I try to be of service, and nothing seems to work. It seems like the more I flap my wings, the more invisible I become. Even when I make a scene, I still feel unseen. This hurts.”

“Even when I make a scene, I still feel unseen.”

It was a tough pill to swallow but ultimately it freed me from trying to be seen and heard and understood and yada yada yada.

Two things are NOT working:

1. We’re speaking the wrong language

2. We’re speaking to people who don’t want to listen

Lin XO

author, lawyer, business strategist for gutsy female entrepreneurs who want MORE LinEleoff.com